A dog is a gift, but never a present
Every winter, here in Cavan, as the lights go up and the shops fill with tinsel, something else begins in the background. Phone calls to vets and rescues increase, people wondering if a puppy might be the perfect surprise under the tree. It’s an idea wrapped in good intentions – and yet, for many dogs and families, a Christmas puppy leads to heartbreak rather than happiness.
There’s no doubt that sharing your life with a dog is a blessing. They bring laughter to a house, muck to the floor, and comfort on hard days. Older people find company, and children grow up with a loyal friend. A dog can weave itself into the heart of a home.
But the very things that make Christmas magical for us – visitors, noise, late nights, routines turned upside down – make it one of the worst times to welcome a young pup. They need calm, patience and consistency. Instead, they can find themselves passed from lap to lap, over-handled and under-rested. House-training in rain and watching chewing teeth near decorations and cables can sour the experience for everyone.
A dog is a 10 to 15-year promise. After the decorations are packed away and life returns to normal, some families realise they don’t have the time, money or energy that a growing dog requires. Walks are skipped, training is forgotten, and the once-adored Christmas pup may end up spending long days alone or being surrendered to a rescue shelter already at capacity.
If you are dreaming of a dog, give it the respect it deserves. Think honestly about your lifestyle. Are you out of the house all day? Do you enjoy long walks, or are you happier by the fire? A high-energy Collie or Springer will be miserable with a quiet family that prefers short strolls. A large, strong breed may not suit a household with young children or frail relatives.
Coat type, size, temperament and exercise needs all matter. Talk to your vet, speak to reputable breeders and rescue centres, and read about different breeds and mixes. Plan for a quieter time of year when you can be at home to settle your new companion in. Choosing a dog should never be an impulse buy, but a commitment made with your head as well as your heart.
A dog can be a truly great gift you ever give your family – but never a Christmas present.
- Ciara Clarke, Vets & Pets Bailieborough